s The 10 gals clique

* Thursday, June 5, 2008 *

Hmm... pretty boring at home now... sick so i nv go sch...

i read the post where u girls previously posted. I dun really hv the clear view of what actuali happened inbetween u girls.. but from here and there observing...i came out a conclusion...

To Serine:
Erm...LIfe ain't easy to cope...a fallen relationship may be sad like hell... but when a relationship doesnt belong to u... it wil nv be too...

I read ur post that u actuali wanted to patch with JH... but he rejected.... when i read it.. i felt that there is no point to patch animore...u did mention that it need 2 hand to clap... as in u wanted to patch but JH dun wan...

well in my view, you need 2 hand to clap...ya is true but it is mention to a relationship... when argue pop up.. it needs 2 hands to commit and mend it back where it was to be... as u and JH de relationship... has lots of crack and no matter hw u mend... it will be scars.. the feeling wont be the same animore... i hope u understand that... break up ain't something that collaspe ur life.. but an experience for u to learn... and there is no point to patch as u canot assure that another argue will break both of u up again... u guys the relationship already turn bad. Evn if u say u can assure that wont be break up, already around 1 year than u realise it will be too late...

Its hard to forget... but u still hv too.... maybe some ppl may choose to make themselves occupied or find another person replace... but it is better to make urself busy... i hope u nv thought of finding someone to replace... because i can assure u... u will nv find a true love till u old if u choose to find replacement.

best way... wait for love and nv find love...? Women without men wont die... i personally agree with that after a fallen relationship wif my ex bf... in the 1st place i felt the same as u... miserable... lonely... no ppl accompanying me home...but as time goes by... wound will heal. even healed... i nv eva let man easily get through my heart cos i nv wanted to find love at all.. i treat all men as buddy... i waited for love.. rather to find someone to replace my loneliness... i always believe that if u dun find love, love will find u... its the matter of sooner or later...

God create u for a purpose. if God say u will nv hv a spouse till u die, den u will nv hv one complete relationship. If God says u will be a riches women in the world when he created u, no matter hw many ups and downs u need to go through, the purpose is there... u will meet it somedays. God gave u ur life for u to walk.. and learn... ups and downs are for u to learn and for u to be stronger. Maybe JH is just a passerby in ur life for u to learn? hv u thought of it before?
Or maybe ur future spouse is still at another end of the earth, crying for a fallen relationship which he duno that when time comes by both of u will meet as God say so when he created u?

i duno whether u are christian or not... but to me as a taoist i wil refer it as my taoist God... if u are chirstian den it will be ur God.. to me They are the same... they create Man! =)

To Penny:
eh... i heard that u wanted to quit sch... i hope u dont... as none of us wish to see u quit sch too. I know that things happened around u is hurtful... where i myself nv eva experience b4.. but i can understand that hw it impact ur life... i wont force u to make a decision to stay in sch... as each of us has the responsiblity for our own life, u choosen dis path... dun regret on the path u choose... must be brave and move on =)

Road is created by our hands.. no matter which path u choose... there wont be dead end.. as long as u trust the path u choose! =)

Posted by Serene Tan =)

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